Posting into this discussion thread feels very risky! - like putting one's head into a Lion's mouth! However I wonder if I might be permitted to put forward for discussion a couple of small suggestions in relation to the 2 topics aired here...
* How to stay safe during extraction [or any shamanic healing] practices
* How someone [like Barry] could ever be cured of a terrible lifelong affliction for which no healer is ever "good enough"Two healer friends of mine, who had physical ailments, a degree of depression and relationship [lack of!] problems, spent time in Brazil with Joel de Deus ["John of God"] who is undoubtedly [if you have seen the documentary films and medical data] the greatest living healer in the world today. For around 6 months after their return, their physical and psychosocial health was enormously improved - a dramatic transformation! By one year later they were both back to their original unhealthy/dysfunctional condition.
Why was this?What I saw was that, over time, they drifted back to their old lifestyle habits and the boost of loving energy and healing technology [herbs and procedures] they had received gradually wore out and they lacked the lifestyle skills and self-awareness of their habitual thinking/feeling/behaviour patterns to sustain the healthier and more socially functional state they had come home with.
The lesson I draw is that SUSTAINABLE HEALING is usually "self-healing" i.e. healers and remedies can give us a "shot in the arm" boost of healing energy or "soul-identity restructuring", but basically we need to "CHANGE OUR WAYS". As the saying goes "If you do things the way you usually do them, you will get the same results that you usually get!".
Interestingly that great Middle-Eastern shaman, Yeshua [1,500 years later renamed "Jesus"] said to people that he healed "Go in Peace and stop sinning otherwise you will get worse!". The word "Sinning" here is based on a much later translation/interpretation of Yeshua's work - the Aramaic version means something more like "behaving unskilfully" or "behaving thoughtlessly". Anyway he apparently clearly understood that illness was driven as much by lifestyle as by demonic possession.
This is not to say that spirit possession and soul-theft do not occur, but that WE ARE CO-CREATORS of these experiences - karmically drawing them to us via the law of cause [lifestyle] and consequences, probably operating over a number of lifetimes. Purification [living via truth and soul-connection] practices are a great part of the shamanic traditions - our ancestors have instinctively known that self-purification is a key part of the road to health, vitality and fulfilment - and contributes to the clearing and prevention of unhealthy energetic or entity attachments.
In my experience there are 2 very common blocks to a person healing...
* Lack of personal power [soul-connection-power]
* Setting impossible conditions [restrictive beliefs] for the healing to occur
See also: "
Why People Don't Heal and How They Can -3 Levels of Power and How to Use Them"
Hardly a week goes by that I don't get a call or an email from someone in the same situation as Barry - someone who seeks a magical healer to "sprinkle magic dust over them" and make everything in their life OK. It is a deadly trap for the unwary shamanic practitioner. In many of these cases, further questioning reveals that the "victim" concerned has been "doing the rounds of healers" [and "magic dust" products] for some time, and now concludes that they were all FAKES or "financial rip-off" merchants. Most of them are spending so much time searching the internet for a "magic bullet" provider that they have become seriously ungrounded with little connection to normal everyday life and relationships.
I ask these enquirers how they would feel about changing their lifestyle? - Explaining that if they don't change the way they are living and relating to the world they will keep karmically re-creating the same old experiences and their progressive descent into powerlessness will leave them open to all kinds of abuse and neglect - both earthly and spiritual. Sadly most of them are clinging desperately [like a drowning person to a piece of straw] to the illusion that "One day my prince[ss] will come and then my life will begin!"].
Yes, they can benefit from soul-retrieval or extraction work - but only when it is clearly tied to personal responsibiility of the recipient for specific grounded changes in lifestyle and self-management/social/spiritual skills - otherwise the benefits will be short-lived and both healer and the [increasingly bitter] healee will be contributing to continuing mutual disenchantment.